As a 64 year old survivor of incest at age 3, a history of extreme and capricious corporal punishment ( me and my older and younger brothers) from ages 5 - 13, an unauthorized right radical orchiectomony ( yep, also at the direction of my perpetrator while I was under full anesthesia for a procedure that was only supposed to include a frozen section to examine for testicular cancer; all this after him watching me in pain for three days before I was taken to a Dr. for examination-- at age 21 ( but still financially dependent on my biological father/ well respected church deacon and rotarian, who saw and enjoyed the Spike Lee "Joints" your discuss in your article, I would say, give it time and safe spaces. As my maternal grandmother always said-- you may get by, but you do not ever get away. Give it time... and keep writing to make us "think on these things"! 👍🖖🙏☮️🌎🌏🌍☮️